For the Sheer Joy of it!
When's the last time you did something for the joy of it? No outcome, not to make anything happen just cause you love it and it brings you joy?
I was definitely guilty of doing EVERYTHING in my business and most areas of life, if i'm honest for an outcome and it sucks your SOUL!!!
And that is why I am doing this podcast for the sheer joy of it, listen or not, like it or not, what ever comes of it comes but I absolutely love and enjoy doing it and thats the ONLY thing that matters!
AND also at the same time everything in my spirit says follow your joy and you'll experience ALL the abundance in the world.
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I'm doing this podcast for the sheer joy of it because I want to and I feel inspired to. I'm not doing it for an outcome to try and attract clients. I'm doing it because I'm following my absolute joy and what feels good.
Therefore this podcast doesn't have to be perfect. I don't have to explain things correctly. I can say exactly what I want. I don't have to plan it and it doesn't have to be structured.
I used to have a part of me that was a perfectionist. I wanted to get the message right and was always being critical of myself even though I had a lot of self love. I was my biggest supporter and my biggest critic as well.
I felt that creeping in during the last podcast episode I created. I could feel myself saying you didn't explain this right and people aren't going to get it. So I used the process that I'm working on to remind me of who I am. It puts you back into the deep knowing that you are an infinite divine being and you cannot get things wrong.
There's nobody to impress. A podcast isn't real. The life that you see is an illusion and you are here in this human playground to have fun and enjoy yourself and express in the ways that feel good for you. Therefore you will create the people that actually resonate with your message and love your energy for you rather than for someone that you're trying to perform and be.
Stop Trying to Be Performative
I had that duality where I was very authentic but also trying too hard to write the perfect hook and ending. That is tiring when you're constantly trying to be performative and put yourself into a box. The algorithm is made up. All of these people that teach you that you need to say it that way is absolute BS.
There is nothing wrong with teaching the things that you want to teach for the fun and joy of it. But if you believe that you or anybody else has to do things a certain way to get a certain outcome then you are wrong. That is misleading.
I 1000% have taught things that I wouldn't teach now that I have grown and expanded. Even some of the things around manifestation I got wrong and taught that and people still got great results. I got great results too but I wasn't truly happy and peaceful and joyful. I didn't know how to take the discomfort and doubts and self talk and use that to expand.
You are a spiritual vibrational being having a human experience. You came here to experience being human and that means you're going to have limited thoughts and feelings. Part of it is to actually expand and come back to who you truly are as a divine infinite vibrational creative being.
Moving Into Level Two Manifestation
For me personally I used to teach what I'd call level one manifestation. It does work but it doesn't really give you the joy and the expansion and the happiness that you truly desire deep down.
Now I feel I've moved into level two manifestation creation where I really get it. Before I knew it intellectually that I was a divine infinite being. Now I know what to do to put myself back into the driving seat and into the truth that I am infinite. When you are infinite there is no limit and you don't need to impress anybody. Things can change in the field with a snap of your fingers.
Some things do take time and it's not up to us to decide how long things take. When we do that we put ourselves back into limitation. Even when you move into that next level of reality creation you're still going to create human stuff because you came here to have a human experience.
You can shift your perspective on all of the ups and downs and challenges. They're just diving boards for you to jump on and dive into that next reality.
Using Challenges as Diving Boards
You can read the book Busting Loose from the Money Game. That book and Reality Transurfing are the two models of creation that changed a lot for me. What I'm sharing with you on the podcast is my own experience using those two models mostly.
Yesterday I had a challenge that happened and I knew the process to use from the Busting Loose model. I've been peeling back layers around one situation that's given me so much upset and stress over the last few months. Yesterday it reared its head and I didn't feel anything but actual excitement. I felt happy that it was happening because it gave me a chance to dive into that next level of expansion.
I didn't feel the upset and the stress because I knew it wasn't real. It was just an illusion and made up stories projecting into my reality from a past consciousness. It's really great when the things that used to bother you just don't anymore.
Dancing in Your Kitchen
My old conditioning started to get brought up through recording this podcast. I started to feel the doubts and I used the process to remind myself the podcast isn't real and I don't have to impress anybody.
If you're dancing in your kitchen having a whale of a time with the music blasted up do you try and calculate every move? Do you worry about the step that you did before and what people will think? Or do you just let loose and have fun? If somebody was watching you they wouldn't be critiquing every move. They would just pick up on your pure joy and happiness and might join in with a beaming smile on their face.
Or if you were drawing for the fun of it and splattering the colours around would you calculate every move and rub it out? I went to a paint and sip with my friend and I loved mine even though it's probably quite shit. I even put it up on my wall. My friend's was loads better than mine and she was saying oh I'm absolutely rubbish at this whereas I just had a joyous time and loved it.
No One Wants to Join a Boring Party
Imagine the difference with that and your business. In your business you do things because you think you should. You work with a coach who says you need to communicate your value and find the right hook. That stuff bores you but you've been conditioned that business is solid and real when actually it's an illusion.
If you're doing things because you think you should then you are missing out on that joy. Do you think people want to come to a party or work with you when you are bored and miserable and stuffy and rigid? No one wants to join that party.
We're all one consciousness so clients are just another version of your consciousness. In this podcast I can stutter and get my words mixed up and lack structure and not have a hook. You're listening to this and feeling I love this person's energy because I'm having a blast recording this.
Whether anyone listens or likes it or not I don't care because that's not my job. My job is to have fun and do things that I enjoy. If someone listens to this and feels I need to work with this woman now that will happen because I'm having so much fun.
Are You Being Performative or Following Your Joy?
Look at your business or your job. Are you doing things you love or are you being performative and transactional? Ten out of ten times it's very rare when someone is not doing something for an outcome.
People say yes Emily I do things that I love and no one buys when I do that. You've got to look at your beliefs. If you believe that success equals struggle and hard work and blood and tears that's what you're going to create. You can do things that you enjoy but if your beliefs don't change you still won't get what you want. So you also have to look at your beliefs and your identity.
Start to play and start to enjoy. I am doing a hundred episodes in 60 days. I've made two minute podcasts and three minute podcasts and this is a 15 minute podcast. There is no structure I have to stick to and I'm doing this for the pure joy of it.
If you're still listening now then I hope you are feeling that joy and passion and I would love to get to know you. You can work with me in a one off session called Your Money Mirror where we look at what your consciousness is saying in relation to your financial reality and how to create something more expanded and unlimited. I've also got my longer term coaching called Further Faster Deeper where I help you go further faster and deeper into the life you were truly meant to live.
If any of those options speak to you come and say hi on Instagram or drop me an email or send me a smoke signal and have the best beautiful day. Go and do things that you enjoy and love your life and have fun!!