You Do Not Create your Reality
What if you do not actually create your reality at all?
In this episode we unpack why trying to force clients and money and business success feels like swimming upstream and how tuning in to the lifeline you want changes everything.
Discover how to drop the illusion of the algorithm and turn every challenge to your advantage by remembering who you really are.
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You don't create your reality. That seems like something I wouldn't say because if you've been in my world for a while I have said a million times you are the creator of your reality. Actually you are not creating your reality. Are you the one shaping what you experience and choosing the storylines and lifelines that you move into? Yes. But you're not creating anything.
If you feel you've got to create the clients and the business and the finances and the body then you are missing the truth of the situation. There are infinite possibilities already available. All of the possibilities of the things that you can create already exist in the quantum field. There is no such thing as past and present and future. Everything exists as a possibility.
Just sit with that because this is not something that you want to just know intellectually. It's something that you want to feel with every part of your being. There's a difference between believing something and saying something and knowing it.
This is a truth that I know and I absolutely love it because it really gave me freedom to think I don't have to create anything. There is an infinite amount of storylines and lifelines available for me. When you really get that and know it within every part of your being you don't have pressure. You don't have to go there and make something happen.
You do have to become a vibrational match to the lifeline that you want. There is a storyline where you are a very rich successful woman or man and there's a lifeline where you are homeless on the street. The way that you experience the different realities in your consciousness is through your beliefs and awareness and perception and self concept. You really do get to choose which lifeline you experience without having to go out there and make anything happen.
Dropping the Illusion
When a lot of people spiritually awaken all they do is adopt one illusion and drop that illusion and swap it for another. Awakening is really about dropping the illusion and realising that it is all an illusion. Nothing is real and nothing is solid. You aren't real. You are playing a character and the people around you are playing characters.
Because this storyline feels so solid people try and change appearances and situations and they try and try. That is like swimming upstream or being stuck in quicksand and trying to get yourself out of it. You are constantly exhausting yourself because you're not flowing with the truth of who you really are.
Books along the way have really helped me. Reality Transurfing talks a lot about lifelines and more recently I read Busting Loose from the Money Game which is a book about consciousness and creation. It really changed things for me because even though I understood that everything was vibration and energy I still went into my humanness when challenges happened. Dropping limitation is something you have to keep moving through. Every time there are feelings that don't feel good I have to come back to the remembrance of who I am.
Tuning In Rather Than Creating
Who I am is pure consciousness. We are pure consciousness shaping the reality that we experience and all the different realities already exist. Therefore you do not have to create anything. You just need to tune in.
Imagine the TV show that you love to watch. You don't go up to the TV and think I've got to create this TV show because I want to watch it. You turn on the TV and press the right channel and there is your TV show. If you turn the TV off the TV show already exists. When you turn it back on it's already there. All it is about is you tuning in to the lifeline that you want to experience.
First of all it's about remembering who you are. You can ask the question who am I? For me it's been about self inquiry and sitting with I am. I am is pure consciousness. When you remember who you are as an infinite powerful being with creative abilities you drop the limitation and all those beliefs you've been carrying around.
When you do that you start to create the reality you want because you know nothing is outside of your power. If you're a business owner you might think attracting clients is outside of you and you've got to say the right thing and please the algorithm. That is not true because your reality is a projection of your inner world and inner consciousness.
Attracting Clients Is an Inside Job
Attracting clients and doing the work that you love is an inside job. It's not trying to get anyone to do anything. When you look at the online coaching industry all they are doing is giving you more restriction and limitation. Any business coach unless they are helping you remember who you really are and teaching you that there is no strategy and no algorithm is giving you more limitation. Of course you still take action for the joy and love of it because you are having a human experience.
You didn't have to become somebody new. You just need that remembrance every single day because even where I am now things come along that feel heavy and horrible and real. I have to remember who I really am and switch that back on because it's very easy to forget. My work is helping you remember who you really are again and again until it becomes your identity.
I'm not at a place where I'm materialising things just by thinking about them though I believe you can get to that place. We're here to have a journey and an experience. It's not about instant manifestation. It's about enjoying the journey and knowing that everything that happens to you is to your advantage.
Someone doesn't buy and that's to your advantage. You have a shit launch and that's to your advantage. You go overdrawn and don't know where the next bit of money is coming from and that is to your advantage. When you start seeing everything to your advantage and knowing that everything works out better than expected everything shifts.
Now when I have discomfort I see it as a new opportunity to remove limitations and shift the patterns I've been operating from. I see life as a joyous thing even through the challenges. I still have moments of tears and feelings and that is great. Feel the feelings and let them springboard you into a new reality where you know this is all an illusion shaped through your consciousness.
The power is within you. Sit with what I've had to say today and see what comes up for you. If you have questions please reach out. You are more than welcome to drop me an email or come and say hi on Instagram and drop me a DM. Have a beautiful abundant blessed day and I will see you soon.